2017 : A Year of Lessons ! 2017 is one such year which proved how lucky i am . It has already made a mark in the journey of my life . It has shown that a year can a change a person a lot . I was not the same a year back. 2017 taught me key to happiness lies with self . No matter how much other people try to demolish you , you can be happy if you have control of your thoughts and mind . 2017 gave me a beautiful opportunity to realise how much people care for me and love me. It also proved me the people whom I can trust and who will stay with me in tough times . It thought me the importance of family and good friends. I also understood that the life is a roller coaster with up’s and downs . It’s never saturated . 2017 gave me experiences to make my mind and soul strong . I understood all the life lessons cannot be learnt inside four walls. I learnt to expect least from people which is the root cause for unhappiness . I’m sure that the lessons which 2017 taught is going to
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How a beautiful weather can unleash positivity ! Date : 14/10/2017 Place :Kalyan Nagar , Bangalore Saturday 11.PM , Rain 22 •C Humidity : 100 % Wind :13 kmh Today I realise why bangalore was once called as “Pensioners Paradise” . The fine breeze and the drizzles of rain can take a person to a feeling of satisfaction from nowhere. I am experiencin it now . Whenever I start hating bangalore either for bringing out haunting memories or for making me lonely , this beautiful weather absorbes out all those thoughts . The green leaves in tress , the bright yellow flowers , the smell of mud and the sound of rain have a hidden power to unleash the positivity in us . It tells to believe in hope , for a fresh start . Bangalore : She is one kind of city that absorbs people into it . The weather is pleasant with light showers and hill station climate . I feel the ultimate goal of Bangalorean life should be sitting under a tree , reading books and eating peanuts . To be in pe
God : Our ever well-wishing friend ! Do you know why the warriors of God always start with a defeat ? It is to quell arrogance. A body without arrogance is like a burning forge. Only that forge can be imbued by the flowing molten form of divine power , only if it is imbued like that , it will turn out to be a living weapon. Whatever happens in our life is all at the mercy of Lord . There is nothing bad happens to us ever . Every single thing that happens to us is the form of lords mercy to take us one step closer towards him . It is our perception to say this is good and bad . If things we are comfortable with occur then we say that is good , if there are things which we don't expect and we don't welcome occur , we say they are bad . But in the eyes of Lord there is no good no bad .He is our ever well wishing friend , so all that he does , is always for our good .He cares for us. How can a true well wishing friend ever do anything bad for us ? It's our
A Train Journey *Kannur - bangalore sept 3rd 2017 6:10 PM *Joshin Marriage A good train journey makes you think , it makes you rewind memories . It takes you world of imagination . The buzzing sound of engine moves you to the flashbacks with the whirlpools of different colours . The engine moves the bogies with its own sweet speed :very slow on side and cruising on the other. it also has multiple stops and the train timings are unpredictable . Sometime due to unfavourable conditions it halts in the same place for the long time . So is life ! Life is a train journey ! Sometimes it takes you to wonderland which you always wanted sometimes it ties up you to your haunted memories . It up to the feel of your mind . A train journey gives you all the beautiful views outside . The lush green fields , trees , rivers , boats water bodies , animals ,birds flying up in the sky ,different people ,the beautiful saffron coloured sun dipping to the horizons etc . You can
Lonely Thoughts Life : Where did I come from ? what is happening wit me and where am I leading to ? The best introspection happens in life when you are broken and when you melt with nature .The intense emotional feelings infused in the humming of birds and the sound of night take you to an imaginary world of thoughts ! I sit on an old chair all alone in my balcony with the majestic chembra in front of me lushed with all the with all the possible beauty and greenery on earth .Multiple thoughts floods over the mind now . The momentum of thoughts is not stable . The music of nature makes u happy and sober on one side, but the memories takes you to some lows on the other side . Little wired huh ! I always wonder what life has did with me ? Life has blessed me with all the lucks what a person needs . She has given me beautiful moments to cherish right from the childhood . But on the other hand she has tested me with the shells at unexpected times. The moments
How to get over a heartbreak ? 1. Tell to yourselves that down the line nothing happens today will matter you. You will be a totally much better person if you were true in your heart. 2. Talk to someone who cares. - The mistake what I did in the initial days was , I tempt to say my heartbreak story to everyone.Remember not everyone is truly interested in your story after a certain point . 3. Allow yourself to be human and feel the pain. 4. Immediately take your broken heart to God.Pray to him . 5. Give yourself time to heal. 6. Learn lessons from the experience. 7. Be careful…don’t date destructive people to begin with. 8. Don’t overreact and embarrass yourself. 9. Don’t over analyze. 10. Don’t go into immediate dating. 11. Let go of mementos and gifts ( but I still have my album here) 12. Keep yourself busy by giving to others. 13. Take Care of yourself physically 14. It’s mostly about you, not your ex 15. Move on 16. Tell to your
Poem 1 : Who you were and who you are ! You waved like an angel - smiled like an occultist! You came like an orator - played like a moron ! You loved like Juliet - acted like Marilyn! You were like a gem - proved to be a scum! You eyes were like Penelope's- filled with hurt and lies! Your cared like a mother - your mother should be proud now ! - vysh-
An Introspection : ''I am sorry I loved you. I am sorry I let you in my life. I am sorry that I let you touch me. I am sorry that I spoke about your level of cheating to everyone we knew . You made sure that everyone I had in life knew about each and every intimate moment I had spent with you . And some people made sure that I 'paid the price' for it. Some people took the liberty to try and wrong me and justified themselves by saying that "she has done it before" or "well she is impure" and blah blah. But I don't blame them. They just stepped on the broken glass that you smashed on the floor. If I would have broken your heart ,that's what you would have told them all. You broke me, my soul, and my inner self. Every ounce of me hated me. But no ounce of me hated you. It still doesn't. Because you were never meant to matter I guess. You were never the companion I would choose for my life's long journey. You were not so
SWEETEST DEVIL - THE CONCLUSION! I am under huge dilemma to whether to continue with this series or not. I started the blog in this topic by keeping immense love for SOMU in mind , I would have continued in the same flow if I didn’t know her past .In the previous blogs I told she was a gem to me till April 20 th – but she continued to prove it wrong again and again in each second. New stories were nourishing in each day about her. In these days I did a lot of research and found out her past. More than her past I was curious to find out what exactly happened in last one year. I could speak to her friends, colleagues, and came to know little more deeply about somu from few of her cousins. No one can expalin to that level unless some serious shit happens. I prayed for 27 days and nights to Almighty to speak to her for a minute and ask “why did she do this “? Like our Alchemist says "If you desire something’s and work for it, universe will conspire to help you in achieving
The Sweetest Devil - Part 4 Somu started becoming an integral part of my life . Days started with her thoughts , gave a positive vibe throughout the day and sweet talks in the night ! It was a perfect period every guy could ever have . She always said me her friends were telling we both resemble each other and our eyes are alike . " Came to know later that she hasn't met any of her friends for the last 1.5 years". All her relatives also started liking me very much . One day night she was telling she enjoyed our first date throughly. Bullet ..chitchats..walking ..talking..icecream..pizza..and much more .she said me I made her day ! She told she loved my eyes and she wants me next to me always . That week we used to speak a lot till late night ! Very late nights. While it's so late , she used to says he don't like saying bye to me ! She used to blush a lot about my love , care, expressions,talks etc etc.She always said she loves to read my messages always .
The sweetest devil : Part 3 I went my home that day evening . I was staying with my friends . So happy, people praised me for settling the marriage things at the first girl itself . Told many things about her , shown the pics ! They were telling you are too lucky to get a beautiful lady . But doubted on her body nature that she was too fat for me . I told it was because she was in saree . I slept that day with the dreams of her ! Too happy ! Too satisfied . Next day when I woke up , I got a call from my mom ! She was talking some thing weird . My mom and my brother in law had a discussion that evening . My brother in law has indicated to mom that , ''somu is beautiful and family is good but her body nature , facial expressions on the first day - he is not convinced and he indicated she will not be in Vyshak's control '' . When my mom told this to me I shouted at her . I told it was us who went there and gave a word to them . I can't break the word .
The sweetest devil -Part 2 Let me give a gist of my good days with Somu here . July 10 the 2016 : Got the proposal of Somu from Iyer matrimony. The first pic of her itself blew my mind .My dream girl . A fat cute girl . My sister has called up their parents , enquired about their family and did a matching of our horoscopes from multiple astrologers . It was a perfect match . Well settled family in bangalore . She was born and brought up in Bangalore - stayed with family since childhood . They were staying here as a community with relatives the next door . We assumed it as a perfect match and decided to go and see her on July 10th 2016 . I was accompanied by my mom, sis, brother in law their kids , my 2 cousins family . A total of 10 people in 2 cars . Reached there by around 11.00 AM . Her Dad - A perfect Gentle man welcomed us to their home . They were also nearly 15 people in home . Its was like a get together with nearly 20 -25 people. All happy . The family
The sweetest devil - Part 1 എവിടെ നിന്നോ വന്നു എന്തിനോ വേണ്ടി അടുത്ത് മോഹിപ്പിച്ചു ഒരുപാടു പറയാത്ത രഹസ്യങ്ങൾ ഒളിച്ചുവെച്ച്ഒരുപാടു ഉത്തരങ്ങൾ ബാക്കി വെച്ച് കാണാമാരായതു മാഞ്ഞു പോയ സുന്ദരി ... ആരാണ് നീ ? "Cheating does not mean you are a terrible person, but it does make you a terrible person, temporarily. I believe that an exclusive relationship — be it one that is a week old, a year old, three years old or nine years old — is sacred; not as sacred as marriage, but sacred, nonetheless. You are committing to each other, and cheating violates that trust and promise. And that’s why cheating makes you a terrible person, for the moment. "I would have respected my fiance if she had the decency to tell me that she is having another affair. " Here goes our Love story !! April 21st 2017 - I was in ecstasy in the morning when I got up - hurray! it is my wedding week ! Last few things to be completed before the big fat wedding