How to get over a heartbreak ? 

1. Tell to yourselves that down the line nothing   happens  today will matter you. 
    You will be a totally much better person if you were true in your heart.
2. Talk to someone who cares. - The mistake what I did in the initial days was , I tempt to             say my heartbreak story to everyone.Remember not everyone is truly interested in your story after a certain point .
3. Allow yourself to be human and feel the pain.
4. Immediately take your broken heart to God.Pray to him .
5. Give yourself time to heal.
6. Learn lessons from the experience.
7. Be careful…don’t date destructive people to begin with.
8. Don’t overreact and embarrass yourself.
9. Don’t over analyze.
10. Don’t go into immediate dating.
11. Let go of mementos and gifts ( but I still have my album here)
12. Keep yourself busy by giving to others.
13. Take Care of yourself physically
14. It’s mostly about you, not your ex
15. Move on
16. Tell to yourself that , you are gonna prove them what they missed.
17. Believe in yourself , you are worth more than this.
18. Believe in karma ! 

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