How to get over a heartbreak ? 1. Tell to yourselves that down the line nothing happens today will matter you. You will be a totally much better person if you were true in your heart. 2. Talk to someone who cares. - The mistake what I did in the initial days was , I tempt to say my heartbreak story to everyone.Remember not everyone is truly interested in your story after a certain point . 3. Allow yourself to be human and feel the pain. 4. Immediately take your broken heart to God.Pray to him . 5. Give yourself time to heal. 6. Learn lessons from the experience. 7. Be careful…don’t date destructive people to begin with. 8. Don’t overreact and embarrass yourself. 9. Don’t over analyze. 10. Don’t go into immediate dating. 11. Let go of mementos and gifts ( but I still have my album here) 12. Keep yourself busy by giving to others. 13. Take Care of yourself physically 14. It’s mo...
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Poem 1 : Who you were and who you are ! You waved like an angel - smiled like an occultist! You came like an orator - played like a moron ! You loved like Juliet - acted like Marilyn! You were like a gem - proved to be a scum! You eyes were like Penelope's- filled with hurt and lies! Your cared like a mother - your mother should be proud now ! - vysh-
An Introspection : ''I am sorry I loved you. I am sorry I let you in my life. I am sorry that I let you touch me. I am sorry that I spoke about your level of cheating to everyone we knew . You made sure that everyone I had in life knew about each and every intimate moment I had spent with you . And some people made sure that I 'paid the price' for it. Some people took the liberty to try and wrong me and justified themselves by saying that "she has done it before" or "well she is impure" and blah blah. But I don't blame them. They just stepped on the broken glass that you smashed on the floor. If I would have broken your heart ,that's what you would have told them all. You broke me, my soul, and my inner self. Every ounce of me hated me. But no ounce of me hated you. It still doesn't. Because you were never meant to matter I guess. You were never the companion I would choose for my life's long journey. You were not so...
SWEETEST DEVIL - THE CONCLUSION! I am under huge dilemma to whether to continue with this series or not. I started the blog in this topic by keeping immense love for SOMU in mind , I would have continued in the same flow if I didn’t know her past .In the previous blogs I told she was a gem to me till April 20 th – but she continued to prove it wrong again and again in each second. New stories were nourishing in each day about her. In these days I did a lot of research and found out her past. More than her past I was curious to find out what exactly happened in last one year. I could speak to her friends, colleagues, and came to know little more deeply about somu from few of her cousins. No one can expalin to that level unless some serious shit happens. I prayed for 27 days and nights to Almighty to speak to her for a minute and ask “why did she do this “? Like our Alchemist says "If you desire something’s and work for it, universe will conspire to hel...
The Sweetest Devil - Part 4 Somu started becoming an integral part of my life . Days started with her thoughts , gave a positive vibe throughout the day and sweet talks in the night ! It was a perfect period every guy could ever have . She always said me her friends were telling we both resemble each other and our eyes are alike . " Came to know later that she hasn't met any of her friends for the last 1.5 years". All her relatives also started liking me very much . One day night she was telling she enjoyed our first date throughly. Bullet ..chitchats..walking ..talking..icecream..pizza..and much more .she said me I made her day ! She told she loved my eyes and she wants me next to me always . That week we used to speak a lot till late night ! Very late nights. While it's so late , she used to says he don't like saying bye to me ! She used to blush a lot about my love , care, expressions,talks etc etc.She always said she loves to read my messages always . ...
The sweetest devil : Part 3 I went my home that day evening . I was staying with my friends . So happy, people praised me for settling the marriage things at the first girl itself . Told many things about her , shown the pics ! They were telling you are too lucky to get a beautiful lady . But doubted on her body nature that she was too fat for me . I told it was because she was in saree . I slept that day with the dreams of her ! Too happy ! Too satisfied . Next day when I woke up , I got a call from my mom ! She was talking some thing weird . My mom and my brother in law had a discussion that evening . My brother in law has indicated to mom that , ''somu is beautiful and family is good but her body nature , facial expressions on the first day - he is not convinced and he indicated she will not be in Vyshak's control '' . When my mom told this to me I shouted at her . I told it was us who went there and gave a word to them . I can't break the word ....
The sweetest devil -Part 2 Let me give a gist of my good days with Somu here . July 10 the 2016 : Got the proposal of Somu from Iyer matrimony. The first pic of her itself blew my mind .My dream girl . A fat cute girl . My sister has called up their parents , enquired about their family and did a matching of our horoscopes from multiple astrologers . It was a perfect match . Well settled family in bangalore . She was born and brought up in Bangalore - stayed with family since childhood . They were staying here as a community with relatives the next door . We assumed it as a perfect match and decided to go and see her on July 10th 2016 . I was accompanied by my mom, sis, brother in law their kids , my 2 cousins family . A total of 10 people in 2 cars . Reached there by around 11.00 AM . Her Dad - A perfect Gentle man welcomed us to their home . They were also nearly 15 people in home . Its was like a get together with nearly 20 -25 people. All ...